But for the Grace of God Go I
Due to the location of our church near down-town Tacoma, the congregation finds itself dealing with homeless folks and the issues they bring fairly regularly. And there are definitely issues – many of which aren’t positive. But not all of them are negative either.
It is not my intention with this post to mount my high horse and take a stand one way or the other on homelessness, or push a personal opinion or agenda on the matter. Rather, I simply wish to make a few (hopefully helpful!) points to perhaps foster some healthy introspection.
I’ve had multiple conversations with folks living on the streets – usually after they have slipped into the church during a worship service or other activity. This is one of the blessings of being in an area where the homeless inhabit. Different congregational members and I have had many opportunities to share the Gospel of Jesus Christ with folks struggling on the street, and to reflect Jesus’ love to them … many of whom don’t experience much wholesome love in their day-to-day situations.
Here’s my first observation: one cannot lump every homeless person into a generic category. They are not all drug addicts or alcoholics. They are not all mentally unstable. They are not all choosing that lifestyle. They are not all uneducated. They are not all inconsiderate litterers. They are not all criminals. They are not all unbelievers.
And they are certainly not all worthless. (The Lord Jesus loves each one of them and died for them! There is no higher value possible than that!)
Each individual is an individual with their own individual story.
While transporting a soaking-wet woman to a safe place … a woman who walked in the church doors after the Christmas Day service, I asked her how she got in this situation. She replied, “It’s a long story with many reasons, but it started with the death of my daughter.” She also made the comment, “I wish more people asked that question instead of assuming the worst.” Then she returned to singing along with the Christian Christmas songs playing on the radio. She said, “I wish I would have gotten to church in time for worship this morning; I love the message of Christmas.”
The man who stepped into the Sanctuary this past Wednesday after worship had a different story. After buying him a hot Pho meal (his choice!), he confided that he had to leave his home because of his abusive uncle. When I asked if it was worse than living on the street, and could he go back there, he responded that if he did, his uncle would probably throw his mother out on the street. He couldn’t live with himself if that happened.
While most who pop in end up asking for help of some kind (usually money), it is not at all uncommon for some to simply stay for worship. The logical assumption might be that they are there because it’s a warm, dry place. And that’s true for some, but others clearly relish the opportunity to hear God’s Word. A gentleman who joined us recently actively participated in the service, and then afterwards asked me some theological questions that showed a clear mind and keen grasp of the Scriptures. He never asked me for anything else. He only wanted the Word.
While there is no doubt that many living in tent-cities are there because of significant personal issues, and a good share of them really do choose to live that way, there is also no doubt that there are some who do not. They simply fell into it somehow, and desperately desire to crawl back out of it.
The unfortunate reality, however, is that once one “gets down on their luck,” their “luck” is exceedingly slow to change. Once dirty, disheveled and smelly, it’s pretty difficult to catch breaks … no matter how hard one may try. The homeless shelters try to help, (God bless them!), but they have shortcomings as well.
Between bites and gulps of his Vietnamese soup the other night, the homeless man in my truck confided that he had totally taken for granted the simple luxuries of life. A hot meal. A bed to sleep in. A roof over his head. A shower. Comfort. Safety. He said he desperately wanted those things back, and if God gave them to him, he would never take them for granted again.
It is always sobering to have a heart-to-heart with someone on the street. When it happens, I always find myself wishing I could do more for them, and I’m always astounded at the gratitude most have for the little I do. It’s also impossible to fail to recognize how blessed I am … no matter my personal trials. Furthermore, it’s impressed upon me that if a few things had gone differently in my life, I could be out on the street myself. The same is true for you.
Which puts a whole different perspective on the matter.
But for the grace of God go I. But for the grace of God go you.
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Lamentations 3:21-25
Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope: Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, “The LORD is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.” The LORD is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him;
James 1:17-18
Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all he created.
Psalm 146:1-2, 5-6
Praise the LORD. Praise the LORD, my soul. I will praise the LORD all my life; I will sing praise to my God as long as I live. … Blessed are those whose help is the God of Jacob, whose hope is in the LORD their God. He is the Maker of heaven and earth, the sea, and everything in them — he remains faithful forever.
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Dave – I could not have said any of this better myself. As one who once worked with the homeless as a case manager through Salvation Army, I know you hit the nail on the head when you said each one is different and has their own story. It’s at times astounding how some of them get into their predicament. Now as one who helps provide used furniture through Hope Center for the houses of those who formerly were homeless, it is wonderful to see how most of them are so appreciative as to what I bring them. I at times express my apologies if I can’t bring them as awesome or matching stuff as I would like to, but they assure me of their gratefulness, because it was better than what they had before – that is, nothing.
Keep up the good work!
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