When the Wrong Way Seems Right
It is one of the most stupidest things I’ve ever done. (Yes, I recognize “most stupidest” is improper grammar, but it seems the most appropriate way to phrase it.)
When my youngest son flies to Michigan, he usually flies into Detroit. It’s a logical flight destination because of the large airport (and therefore cheaper flights). Also, two of his brothers, a sister-in-law, and his nephews and a niece live locally, offering family time with loved ones. Landing in Detroit also means there are multiple options for picking him up and taking him back to the airport, as well as several options for bunking overnight upon arrival.
Then when he wants to transfer the two-and-a-half hours north to our place, Detroit family members shuttle him to our meeting place halfway between there and Clare. They drive north-west, and I drive south-east. It’s a convenient arrangement. At least usually.
For me, the route is quite simple. Going there, I drive Highway 10 East to I-75 South to Birch Run. Coming back, 1-75 North to 10 West. Like I said, simple.
Too simple!
The last meetup went as planned. Greetings and goodbyes were said between transporters, then my youngest son and I headed north to catch the Highway 10 intersection. And we drove clean past it! Not an oopsy mile or two, but twenty full miles!
For the sake of my ego, I will attempt to offer a few reasons for the grievous oversight.
First, I hadn’t seen my son in quite a while, so I was enjoying his company. Secondly, he is studying to be a pastor and loves to talk ministry with me. We were engaged in a riveting theological discussion as I drove. Thirdly, as mentioned, the route is super simple, so I didn’t need to be overly concerned about missing exits. I only had one key turn to make (which I obviously missed!). And finally, the scenery along both freeways is largely similar – mostly wooded with occasional buildings, fields and exits – so there was nothing to alert me I was on the wrong road. In fact, it was only when the trees began to appear more stunted that we both recognized something wasn’t right.
The shock, embarrassment, and frustration I felt when I realized my mistake was significant. All those wasted miles and minutes! (Though we talked the whole way, so it wasn’t entirely wasted.)
Believing one is on the right physical path while actually being on the wrong one is indeed shocking, embarrassing and frustrating … but only temporarily. Believing one is on the right spiritual path while actually being on the wrong one will have eternal ramifications, if not discovered in time.
The bottom line is that everyone is on a spiritual path, whether they know it or think about it or not. Their personal spiritual path may be one of their own devising, or one that was impressed upon them by others.
In one way of looking at it, there are many, many different spiritual paths. In a simpler definition, there are only two spiritual paths – the right one and a wrong one.
Perhaps you’ve heard the expression, “Everyone wants to go to heaven, but few want to go now.” A related phrase might be, “Everyone wants to go to heaven, but few know the only way.”
Jesus made it clear. He said, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father (i.e. goes to heaven) except through me.” (John 14:6).
The flip side of that truth was shared by Solomon. “There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death.” (Proverbs 14:12).
The one wrong path can be taken via many avenues. Concluding that there is no god, or following the wrong god, are obvious ones. These wrong ways can be followed by openly devoting one’s heart to a false god, or by unknowingly loving something of the world more than the true Lord. (1 John 2:15).
Another incredibly common wrong way is trusting in one’s own good actions, or some kind of “karma,” to pull oneself into heaven. (Galatians 2:16).
There is but one true God: the Triune God … Father, Son and Holy Spirit. (Matthew 29:18-20; 2 Samual 7:22; Isaiah 40:25). And there is but one way to heaven: faith in Jesus, the Son’s, redeeming work on our behalf. (Ephesians 2:4-5, 8-9; Acts 4:10-12; Romans 5:6-11).
So how do we know we are on the correct path? How do we remain on the right path; how do we avoid wandering onto the wrong path?
Here’s the key: we immerse ourselves in God’s words! All the road signs are there. The Scriptures are our unerring spiritual GPS. As the psalmist reminds us, “Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” (Psalm 119:105). The Bible not only provides us with unfailing guidance, but with everlasting confidence and comfort.
Many are the wrong – and ultimately destructive – spiritual paths people wander blissfully down … completely unaware. It’s one thing to lose an hour because of missing a freeway exit; it’s far more tragic to lose an eternity because of being on the wrong spiritual route.
Gracious God, keep us all on the right path!
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Matthew 7:13-14
“Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.”
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